The Table Podcast
Welcome to The Table with Silas Tugwell and Brooks Castleberry—real talks on life, love, struggles, and growth. Grab a seat for laughs, stories, and practical advice.
The Table Podcast
Finding Your Person When You Don't Know What You Want
We explore the complexities of modern dating and relationships through honest conversation about finding compatibility, recognizing when to walk away, and the importance of taking time for yourself between relationships.
• The challenge of "right person, wrong time" situations and taking necessary breaks from dating
• Why trying to change someone is a clear sign the relationship won't work
• The talking stage versus actual dating - how long should each last?
• Creative first date ideas and what they reveal about compatibility
• The importance of being authentic from the beginning of a relationship
• Maintaining a healthy balance between romantic relationships, friends, and family
• Setting boundaries with opposite-sex friendships within relationships
• Physical attributes versus personality in long-term relationship success
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Speaker 2:You know what I'm saying.
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Speaker 2:yeah, I didn't even mean that.
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Speaker 2:I know all the old white people around you were just like they ain't right.
Speaker 1:My sister was even like, why did you just get lemonade? I was like bro, I don't mess with lemonade like that, like a Mottu mess with lemonade like that like like a matu man. But I got, I got it. I got to get this out. Bro, I haven't seen you in a minute. Yeah, bro, relationships bro. I know I know what happened, dog, but like, but we gotta elaborate, we gotta elaborate before that one. How was it going?
Speaker 2:um, okay, so before that one, uh, I was talking this chick for a little bit, um, I mean, she was really nice, but uh, I just think it was well, that's actually a crazy response though she was sweet, but she was not, it was just like I think it was a little too much of.
Speaker 2:You know it's important to have like a balance of like how much the like a girl likes you and how much you like her, because you don't want it to be like too much either way yeah, and it was just kind of a little uneven on oh, bro, I know what you're talking about dog.
Speaker 1:I think I know what you wait.
Speaker 2:I think I I don't know if I told you wait, did I bro? I know what you're talking about, dog. I think I know what you're talking about.
Speaker 1:I think I, I don't know if I told you wait, did I? But I know what you're talking about, because I remember that was like almost like one of the last times we talked um you were saying that, that you were getting ready to go to her function yeah, yeah, and it was a really fun like thing, but I think her personality also was just like wasn't like what I'm looking for, no that's.
Speaker 1:That's definitely one thing. Yeah, I know who you're talking about no that's definitely one thing that I'd be running into. Man like you find this person she's beautiful, she's sweet, like she's everything that like you pictured, you know, like that you want, but then, like, once you like, get in the relationship.
Speaker 1:You're like this, like the personality just doesn't feel me exactly it's, it's hard man and I don't know, like I don't know what to do to like figure out that the personality fits me, because I feel like personality changes so much once you actually get into a relationship where you both know that you guys actually have feelings for each other. Yeah, I think I don't know, it's so, it's and it's frustrating to me. I'm like bro, bro, like I just want a girl, bro that I can like mesh with.
Speaker 2:I feel you, bro, I feel you, I think dude, I think my look at it right now.
Speaker 2:After just everything that's happened recently, I think I'm just going to take a break from like trying to look for a relationship, yeah, and I'm just going to you, gonna. You know, like I know it sounds corny like so everyone says yeah, like focus on yourself, but like I just feel like it has not been like I've talked to I'm not trying to be cocky or anything like I've talked to a good amount of people here and like I just think none of them have been what I'm actually looking for. So I think it's the best idea to focus on on myself.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I definitely like. I was in a relationship not too long ago. She was an amazing girl. I have no regrets, but I definitely think after relationships like that just be like going crazy, like like they end a year long, long relationship here or then they enter another one here and here here it's like, it's hard to like. Then you like, oh man, I do need to focus on myself and I do need to realize, like, where do I start?
Speaker 1:because it's like you have to start from square one when you start another relationship. I'm not going to say that, though, and yeah, definitely, I definitely agree with that, but I definitely hate, bro, if someone comes up to me and says like it's not you, it's me, bro.
Speaker 2:I'm crashing out like look, but like no, no, but because I honestly think, like I don't. Okay, as someone that has said that before, I don't think that is an entirely truthful statement, because sometimes it is like it's not that person, it is whoever's doing it, but at the end of the day, the way you're feeling, it's probably due to that person.
Speaker 2:Oh yeah, so it's like, at the end of the day, it might be, it's not you, it's me, but I think that just really means there's something that I'm not happy with, or something yeah, well for sure, especially if you don't find the right person.
Speaker 1:Because I, I'm a firm believer, like um, I have, I know a lot of people who hate the um, the, when people say, like um, right person, just wrong time. I definitely think you can have the right person in the wrong time, um, because sometimes, you know, we're just not ready. Yeah, you know, like um, you know, and especially, like I'd say, like in a spiritual sense, you know, of course I'm not gonna get too much into this, but just like in a spiritual sense like there would be times where, like, spiritually, I'm just not ready. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1:And but, like you know, we in the christian community we like to say God has us in a season of singleness, right, and so it's like sometimes, like you know, like we're like man, I'm just, I'm going to get out of, I'm just going to go look for someone, and God's like no, no, no, no, you're in a season of singleness, but no, and then also just like in the non, you know, you know religious I think it's also like there are just times where either we're just lost in a relationship or we're broken and we don't really know that. That whenever we just try to like get into another relationship, but we also end up hurting ourselves and that person just as much, and I definitely think that's something we don't think about in our society for sure.
Speaker 2:A hundred percent, man.
Speaker 2:Yeah, that's, that's very's very true, bro, I think at the beginning of college once I was out of my year-long relationship, I rushed into a lot of things and like looking back at it you know they always say hindsight is 20-20 but like looking back at it, bro, I mean I definitely was just not ready, yeah, and like I did like make some bad decisions, but I guess only thing you can do is learn from mistakes. Yeah, I feel like I've made a lot of mistakes. I feel like I did like make some bad decisions, but I guess the only thing you can do is learn from mistakes. Yeah, I feel like I've made a lot of mistakes. I feel like I've learned a lot of them.
Speaker 1:I think a lot of times we come into things with anger after a relationship. Yeah, we're like this person didn't do this and this, and I know, like you know, some people are like well, I mean, sometimes, what about the mutual breakups? I even think a lot of times it's the mutual breakups. When people do that, then a lot of times you come in with anger. So it's a good thing to come in with your head straight, whether it's in a religious way, whether it's in a physical way.
Speaker 1:I do think working out is a great way, especially for men, to get that frustration out.
Speaker 1:Also, friends Hang out with more friends, and the problem, I think, with a lot of women in that sense is I think a lot of women will start hanging out with more guys to fill that hole, and I don't think that's very healthy either.
Speaker 1:I think guys will probably a lot of times hang out with their guys and go work hole, and I don't think that's very healthy either. I think guys will probably a lot of times hang out with their guys and go work out, which I think is healthy. Girls, um, I think a lot of times it is finding um, uh, what's the word? Like solace, as I guess I'm thinking um, or you know, in other men, which also honestly sometimes that's not bad, because also sometimes you can find, but also I think I think women do a really a lot better job at handling anger yeah, no, I think so, yeah, for sure and you know that's yeah, that's men like I don't handle anger very well, but whenever I ended that relationship, like I kind kind of, I went into a you know a religious kind of, I took the religious approach.
Speaker 1:I was like, you know, I'm just going to wait and try to figure out me and you know, if that leads me back to her, then that's one thing, but if it doesn't, you know that's another thing. You know, yeah, but yeah no, but actually I want to talk about this, that relationship, you know, your last relationship, how, like yeah, how are you dealing with that?
Speaker 2:My last life.
Speaker 1:Just recently oh.
Speaker 2:I mean honestly, you know it sucks.
Speaker 2:And you know Always does, there's nothing you can really do about it. Because, at the end of the day, if someone's doing stuff that, like you know, you wouldn't want to be, fuck. Let me rephrase this If a girl you're talking to is doing things that you know you wouldn't want your girlfriend to be doing, and I just think that's the biggest sign you can get, that's like, that's just not the right person. Yeah, and it took me a while to realize Definitely right person. Yeah, and it took me a while to realize, um, definitely, because I always thought like, oh, like I can make it work, like you always think you can change a person, right, but I think it's more important to think if you can't change your girl, change your girl yeah, yeah I mean it's yeah, you just gotta, you just gotta keep going man don't let one l?
Speaker 2:uh discourage you, yeah, from.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I think that's definitely a big thing because, yeah, we have so many people, let me just change them. And I know a lot of people talk about this, a lot of podcasters talk about this, but I will say, like a lot of times, whenever we have that mindset, let me try to change them. That's how you already know it's going to be a failed relationship.
Speaker 1:Like I've had so many friends, I'm just going to change them. I know they're this and this and that I'm going to change them. If you can tell from the start that that person's morals don't line up with yours, it's just not going to be successful. Because I started like, how do you figure out the vibe of somebody else without already starting the relationship?
Speaker 2:you know what I'm saying, because I think it sucks, dude, yeah, yeah exactly because then it's like you're in a situation where you know, like you know damn well this is not the right girl.
Speaker 1:But it's like you like her but she, yeah, she's attractive, yeah, she's attractive.
Speaker 2:You know this that this, that, but it's like dude. I wish like literally, if I want, if I could change one thing that I wish I had known before college. It would just be that I knew if I don't like something about a girl, or multiple things about a girl, I shouldn't like try to change that. I should just like really think if that's the right girl for me.
Speaker 1:Yeah, because I just think I I rush into stuff knowing that they weren't the right person, yeah, and then it not ending up yeah, as a relationship yeah, they weren't the right person yeah, for sure, and I think it's the the problem, especially, you know, in the area of life that we're in, you know, from that 19 to 22 age it's really easy to be like man, bro, she's bad, you know, and so it's like shoot your shot, bro, shoot your shot. I'm like, all right, let's do it. And then a lot of times they're like man, she was nothing like me yeah you know, um, because people don't show their true colors until they have to.
Speaker 1:You know, I've caught myself multiple times talking to someone. I'm going to be just this, I'm not going to say anything, I'm not going to be at all of who I really am until I'm locked in, because if she likes, if we get in the relationship, she's going to have to like the true me. But that's not true.
Speaker 2:She's not going to have to like the true you.
Speaker 1:Because they're going to see the true me but that's not true. She's not gonna have to like, she's not gonna have to like the true you, because they're gonna see the true you be like yeah, you know what I'm saying? Like, or I was like saying like, I'm gonna act like this, I'm gonna act like this, you know, big and bad guy, you know, and it's like yeah, no no, because whenever.
Speaker 1:Because if she likes the, if she likes these, you know these big and bad guys um, she's gonna expect you to be like that. And once she figures out that you're not that guy, she's like man, you're a loser. Or or if she's, she expects you to be a shithole wrist and real sweet guy, right, and you end up being this. You know terrible. Just mean she ain't gonna like you, it is. It is just as easy to end a relationship than to start a relationship. Do you think you were successful, you know?
Speaker 2:yeah, but for sure I don't know. Yeah, another thing yeah, you gotta always be yourself too. Yeah, because at the end of the day, if you're in a relationship with a girl, your dreams, but you have to act.
Speaker 2:Fake every time you're around her yeah, that sounds like dude, that sounds horrible and I think that's a really important is just be yourself around a girl as soon as you meet her, so you can really know even if you like her a lot if she doesn't like the real you, then it's not gonna work out, so yeah yeah, no, for sure, I um what.
Speaker 1:This kind of leads me into another question. I have what do you think the long? How long do you think a talking stage should be? See, because I'll give you an explanation before and the reason I have such a hard time with it, because I typically don't do a very long talking stage at all, like you're going to call this crazy. I usually have like a max two weeks Two weeks Holy moly Now, and the reason is because of this.
Speaker 1:Right, what is the meaning of a talking stage? Right, we call it, we say it because it's a way to learn about a person, but also okay. So then, what is dating Because? Aren't we learning about a person? Right, okay, because, essentially, what is dating for? You're going to date a person because eventually, they're going to become your wife. Yeah, right, but we all know, know everyone. As we watched, as we grew up, we watched our parents. They're still learning stuff about each other, right, and they're learning parenting styles from each other. They're learning all these things from each other, right, well, dating you're also learning from each other. And so then, if we're gonna like these two month, three month, four month talking stages, I'm like, what are you even doing? You know? I'm saying because then now we get into the ballpark of people.
Speaker 1:Now, I understand, people started like relationships when they were freshmen in high school and you know they've been, yeah, a long time, you know, I think if you start a relationship when you're a freshman in high school, I mean dating for, I mean dating for the rest of college, I don't really see a problem, because I mean you guys, yeah, but yeah, but it's like same thing. It's like, say, if I started a relationship now, you know I wouldn't want to date for three years. You know what I'm saying? Because I'm like, okay, well, I'm going to talk to you, I'm going to be in this talking stage with you, I'm going to take you on two dates, okay, and first of all, if I don't, if after the first day I still have to be like yeah, then I'm like if my, if my boy comes up to me and says I, I go yeah, the first date was all right, I'll bet on that man.
Speaker 1:Yeah, if you can't say that first date was great, I'll bet on that man that's actually I've never thought about.
Speaker 2:You know what. I know what I'm saying. That's good advice right there.
Speaker 1:But see, I don't know, because sometimes you, because sometimes it is the right person, but you do need a little bit more time to read into it.
Speaker 2:Yeah, no Dang, I didn't even think about that I mean I'd say first date the first date's always a little awkward. Y'all are both nervous yeah, blah, blah but, like after the first date, y'all will be probably more comfortable. Yeah, okay, what is your ideal date? Look like I think.
Speaker 1:I think it depends on who if you guys are both, and now it depends because you know you have the extrovert, extrovert, extrovert combination of the extra introvert. You know, yeah, and also it's different whenever it's a boy and you know the boy's an extrovert you know all that, so I think, you know the first it's. You can interchange them either. The first date is an action date and the second date is a very intimate date, right?
Speaker 1:so you know, for example, I'm an extrovert, so I find an introverted girl. My first day is going to be be a very intimate so we can sit down and have a conversation with her. So now, after that date, I learn about her, I learn about her and if I can go after the first date and be like man she's really sweet, very motherly, I like that Then I'm going to go take her to a date where we can talk and have fun. Maybe Topgolf is a fun thing.
Speaker 2:Minig, have fun. Maybe, like you know, top golf is a fun thing, you know mini golf is a fun thing. You know it doesn't really go. That's just my, my go-to first date back in high school bro it was.
Speaker 1:My go-to is mini golf players called alley cats bro no, but no, but for sure. Um, I think, yeah, I think you have to have an action date and an intimate date because, um, because then now you're kind of learning both sides of a person, yeah, and then also, like now, this is one thing where I'm like I, I say be yourself, but there are like some, some instances, like you know you're in if you're an action date and you're a competitive person. You're with some introverted girl like come on like going crazy, probably isn't.
Speaker 1:You know what you need to be doing. Because like that's like bro. Like yeah, I, I know I said be yourself, but like that doesn't mean yelling her, bro. Like she ain't tiger woods dog, like she's becky from down the street bro um yeah.
Speaker 1:So I definitely think um, yeah, two dates is like, if I can't figure out, she's the one, the one. If I can't figure out, she's gonna be someone in my life or someone I would want to be the one. Yeah, by two dates, she ain't the one. Bro. Now, if you can't even say that the first date was good, don't even go on a second.
Speaker 2:You don't waste each other's time I agree, I think, dude, honestly, the ideal first date bro you got to. I say more of a talking for the first date, I would probably go action, maybe second time hanging out, but I guess just now, because, like I'd say, I want to really get to know this girl. And then I'd say, ideally, maybe dinner or something, or like ice cream or something like that yeah.
Speaker 2:And then I see you chill at your place and like get to know her really and like y'all will actually be able to talk, yeah. So I think that's kind of the idea, yeah I, yeah, no, I for for sure, I.
Speaker 1:I kind of take it in the sense of, um, because you know, I'm a christian, I'm a christian man. You know, I take it in a sense of when I am on a date with a person, before I can make it official, I have a kind of like a checklist of the things that I have to do so that I can say, okay, I think she's a great woman. So, for um, you know, before we start dating, of course, you know, like anyone, she's gonna have to be my parents, right, and my parents and my family's going to have to not love her. You know, because, again, at the end of the day, it is my decision yeah but they're, I mean, you know, like a risk.
Speaker 1:She's a. You know, if my parents can be like, okay, she's a respectable young lady, you know they're like okay, perfect, I love that, you know. And now also I have two sisters. My sisters are gonna have to like her, right almost, and now my sister's almost gonna have to love her, and then I have to be able to have a conversation about God with her. Really, you know, if she is like you know, I'm not saying she got to be like, you know, was it Mother Teresa dog? Yeah, she don't got to be like, you know, like recite song, you know, yeah, yeah, yeah. But like I got to be able to have, like she got to be somewhat like competent in it, I can have a good conversation about her on something that she firmly believes.
Speaker 1:I'm not saying she has to have a specific denomination, like oh, you're Baptist, not going to work. I've got to be able to say, hey, let's have a conversation about Jesus and all that stuff. I usually get that on the first. If it's an intimate first date, I usually get that on the first date. Another thing is I mean I got to think she's I mean attractive. Like I don't think she's attractive. Like my mom puts it perfectly, she's like there's going to be a day where you don't think she's as attractive anymore. Right yeah, so also pick a girl that you can talk to.
Speaker 1:Because when she's not, attractive and you can't talk to her.
Speaker 2:You're cooked.
Speaker 1:You're cooked, bro. You're like man. I gotta spend the rest, the next 20 years of my life with this girl.
Speaker 2:Maybe you should have a kid.
Speaker 1:Bro, my kid turns out to be like her and she can't talk to people Like come on man.
Speaker 2:But I think also, like you got to also. I mean, I care about a girl's looks a lot, but at the end of the day, like it's not her looks that's going to be keeping you there For sure, because the way I think about it is like a looks is what will get you and then her personality is what will keep going.
Speaker 1:It's like the finisher, like the fourth quarter, two-minute one, yeah, yeah. It's like the gift that keeps on giving If she has a good personality and y'all really are like.
Speaker 1:The best thing I think is if a guy and a girl can say they're best friends, but also yeah, I mean dating it's you, you're marrying your best friend, but it's a different type of best friend and that's where that's one thing in that last relationship that I had a hard time with, because you know I could firmly sit here and say that in our relationship we were best friends okay. I don't know if she would have said it, but we were best friends, but it wasn't a different type of best friend.
Speaker 1:It was like we're just best friends, because I feel like you could have a. You got your homeboy, but then also your best friend she's a little bit higher than that. I definitely think, yeah, if I can look at my homeboy and then be like she's like just a little bit higher, then I'm like okay, I like this I like where this is sitting. And if my homeboy don't respect that man me can leave.
Speaker 2:But you know, but you also always got to remember who got you there. Yeah, for sure your homeboys are the ones that are going to be with you through it all and they'll be with you after it, no matter what happens with that girl.
Speaker 2:Yeah, and I just think that also my first ever relationship back like sophomore to junior year of high school, Like I definitely like didn't hang out with my friends enough when I was dating her, but she also was literally my best friend, like I had out there almost every day and like she was literally my best friend, like I was definitely so in love with her. But it's just like you know, I guess love fades but like well, in this society we have a hard time with balance.
Speaker 1:Yeah, you know, because here's the thing If you're religious, you've got to be able to balance. You have to be able to put the balance of God, family, friends and your girlfriend right. But the thing is, balance is hard in that situation. Right, balance is hard in that sense because, like Christian, if you're Christian, you know God comes first, so it's not like a, you know you don't have like 25%'re Christian. You know God comes first, so it's not like a, you know you don't have like 25% for each. You know God should be majority, you know. And so there's that. There's that hard thing. Um, but then also like, yeah, I mean, if now, if you're not religious, not that balanced, you have to find a way to balance your friends, family and, um, your girlfriend and your family should be majority of that as well, yeah, and so that's also hard. Yeah, balance.
Speaker 2:That is definitely hard.
Speaker 1:I wouldn't say. My hard thing is it's kind of the opposite is the balance in the sense of also her, my family and my friends have always been that majority of the part. And so then I have a hard time where you know she'll be like we didn't do this, this, this, this, and I'm like, oh shoot, you know I forgot to do that. You know that's kind of been my, that's been my hard time. But a lot of people, I think, struggle with you know, like I got my family and my boys to back me up.
Speaker 2:But yeah, I got my family and my boys to back me up, yeah, and definitely I think a lot of people also struggle with the opposite way You're putting your girl too much first and then you're not prioritizing your friends or your family and I think that also I struggled with a little bit with my most recent girlfriend.
Speaker 2:I was hanging out with her more than I would hang out with my parents, like my mom, and when I look back at it I think I should have put more effort into making time for everything, but I was just so kind of obsessed with just hanging out there. I didn't realize it then. But now I realize I kind of put aside my family and I should have made more of a balance.
Speaker 1:Yeah, yeah, no for sure. My mom sent me a. What did she send me? My mom sent me it's funny, so my mom's never on social media and she sent me this reel. First of all, I was kind of confused. I was like, um, what are you doing? But no, it was actually it kind of it was. So it says um, it's proven that sons who hug their moms when they see them tend to live happier lives.
Speaker 1:Right, right, and it's crazy, but that was actually a study by Pew Research, really, yeah, and it's because, you know, we talk about the relationships between a son and a mother and a daughter and a father. And I think it was Denzel Washington. He said you know, a mother's first love is her son, but a mother's last no, sorry, a son's first love is his mother and a mother's last love is her son. And it's crazy, you know. And so that's yeah, I always. And also I mean there's another thing is oh, what was I going to say? Another thing is that when your mother is second, there's a real problem, because a lot of people say the girl that you find. A guy looks for a girl like his mother.
Speaker 1:Find a guy looks for a girl like his mother yeah, you know whenever you have the same, because I I look back and I'm like man, a lot of the qualities of the girl that I want has the qualities of my mother, you know like I want a girl that can cook man like my mom.
Speaker 1:She can slave in the kitchen, bro like it's actually insane dog. But the same thing is like my mom. None of us kids ask for gifts. My mom knows how to give gifts like eight Like it's insane. And it's like my. I honestly like it's gift receiving. I don't really care for, but like. But I think the people who have a love language of the gift, you know gifts you know, it's, it's. It goes further than that. It's that they care for people 10 times more than they care for themselves yeah and it's.
Speaker 1:I want a girl that, like I can sit there and look at like man, she cares for everyone. Again, she don't got to be a mother, theresa, but like she can be she's. You know, I can sit there and see like, wow, she cares for people, yeah, but you know, I just I find it interesting that I mean I would say every quality. You know, sometimes people have a hard time with their mothers, um, but I think a lot of qualities, um, that your mother has is also a lot of qualities that just kind of like build into your mind. Yeah, you want a girl to be, but it's very interesting, not for sure, right? Yeah, definitely. Oh, I wanted to ask you, yeah, so, okay, you said your ideal first date Would Okay, so say, you find a girl who's like the action girl, right, would it be valid, okay, valid, okay, would it be valid to take a girl to a? What's it called? What's the thing where you like smash things?
Speaker 2:Oh, like, I always call it a crash out room, but like it's another sort of crash out room, it's like a rage room. Yes, a rage room. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1:Is that valid?
Speaker 2:Dude, that would be sick'm not gonna lie like if a dude. If a girl asked me to do that on our first date, I think I would marry her on the spot. Bro, like that's hell. Yeah, that's so ideal no, I.
Speaker 1:But I'm like, what do you even say? Like you're like one of y'all, like blows at your knee. Someone hits like let's go to bed hits you in the knee dog and it's like what do you tell your boys Told my ACL dog. I was like what was y'all doing? Dog, I broke my arm. Bro, you was going that crazy dog. How do you break your arm on a first date? Like skydiving People be going skydiving. I'm like bro.
Speaker 2:Bro, if you go skydiving on a first date Trying to lose your life dog. That's insane.
Speaker 1:Okay, here I want to play. Now. This kind of leads me to the next game. I'm going to name these first date things we're to me in. The next game is I'm going to name these first date things and we're going to see if this is valid. Alright, we'll add a little bit more to it If she asks you to go to these things. Okay. It's not necessarily things that you think of.
Speaker 1:It's like she asks you to go to these Thrift store outfit challenge. It's like she asks you to go to these, all right, thrift store outfit challenge.
Speaker 2:That's like creative yeah.
Speaker 1:I would enjoy that. Yeah, it depends. Yeah, like bro, If she wants me to buy some of the stuff after this I'm like all right If she's going to see a copper-free outfit, I mean. I don't know your last name yet. Like guys, yeah, all right, let's see here. Mini golf in costume. Oh no, no, mini golf in costume. In costume, like you guys are going to like put costumes on and go mini golfing. I don't know.
Speaker 2:I'm not going to put on a costume in front of a girl on the first date. I mean, if we in Vegas, maybe dog?
Speaker 1:Yeah, I mean yeah, if I'm hammered. Sure, he said if I'm hammered. Bro buddy was hammered when he said yes dog.
Speaker 2:Yeah, there's no way I'm agreeing to this in the first place.
Speaker 1:but, bro, she called me up and said you got your costume Costume. What you talking about, why? What are you talking about? Why are we going golfing? Okay, worst Yelp review tour. I don't really know what that means. Do you go somewhere for Yelp reviews?
Speaker 2:Oh, wait, I think you just look for the worst reviewed places on Yelp.
Speaker 1:Oh, what are you talking about? Maybe?
Speaker 2:go visit them or something Tour them, I don't know.
Speaker 1:I feel like Yelp has the majority of their reviews, like motels.
Speaker 2:Yeah, also tour. I don't know, bro. I feel like yelp has like majority of their reviews like motels. Yeah, I am not. Some people definitely just like mess around in the comments.
Speaker 1:He's saying like the craziest things. But I'll be like, how does that have anything to do with that dog?
Speaker 2:like, come on dude, have you ever read xbox uh game reviews, dude? They're so funny bro actually wait, I did.
Speaker 1:I saw one where it was like bro, he was like it was like rainbow six siege. Yeah, he's like he's like you're trash the game. And he's like I'm only seven and he's like, oh, actually, for your age you're really good. He goes. Then he goes. Yeah, my mom calls my mom doesn't let me play. She calls me fat and stupid. I'm like like, bro, what? No, I feel so bad for that kid though.
Speaker 2:Okay, let me find hey, we can continue with the.
Speaker 1:Let's see here Improv comedy class. See, I'm not going to lie bro.
Speaker 2:Yeah.
Speaker 1:I don't think so?
Speaker 2:Yeah, I don't think so.
Speaker 1:See, like bro, I don't say that I don't think so. See, like bro, I don't say that I don't think I'm very funny. And like women that say they're funny, bro, 9 times out of 10 bro are not funny like bro I lowkey be laughing when they say I'm funny. But also.
Speaker 2:That's the thing, bro girls that think each other are funny are 9 out of 10 times more likely to not be funny to us. Because I swear like there are some chicks that I'll hear someone talk about like, oh man, she's so funny, I'm like really.
Speaker 1:I've hung out all day with you dog. I have not laughed Like what.
Speaker 2:Is she really that funny?
Speaker 1:I mean okay, tourist in our own town date. I think that could be cute.
Speaker 2:That could be fun. Yeah, if you're driving around, maybe if y'all get like snacks or something, yeah, let's say y'all add on to it. You go to Target get snacks before and then you go like get all your little snacks.
Speaker 1:I think tourist in the next town is better.
Speaker 2:Yeah, in your town it may be a little boring. Oh look, it's a city hall.
Speaker 1:Oh, holy shit. Well, it's like, bro, I live in a town that's like 20,000 people. And it's like you know you can run across the town. So it's like tourist in my own town, like that's fair.
Speaker 2:I didn't think about it like that, yeah.
Speaker 1:You know, like Dallas, like. I guess that makes sense.
Speaker 2:Yeah, you know, because they're a place we've never seen.
Speaker 1:Yeah, oh for sure, dude, Karaoke roulette, karaoke roulette. No, oh, the only time that would be fun is if he was First date.
Speaker 2:I don't know if I could deal with that embarrassment Dude. There's no way I'm doing Actually. Oh my God, it's got to be. That could be an insane idea if you were hammered.
Speaker 1:You got to be hammered to the point where you aren't remembering that night dog. And the problem is there are some people who, just no matter how hammered they are, remember everything. That's true. You know what I'm saying. Like you know how awful you would feel. It's like, bro, I look like an idiot.
Speaker 1:Yeah, she's like it was a good night, huh. And I'm like uh, nah For you, yeah for you. You don't remember what happened. You was on that one guy's table dog. You was crawling dog, bro, I looked like a loser. The old folks were looking at me like this was a problem. This generation, that's just a dead flex. Oh no, oh, I'll see you. Weird food taste test. I would honestly vote with that she gives me a slug, bro, I'm crashing out, I'm crashing out, I'm sorry bro, dog Hell.
Speaker 1:No, I'm sorry bro, it's on sight dog, it'll be so for reals on sight dog.
Speaker 2:That's insane work, bro.
Speaker 1:Imagine where you got a blindfold on she goes. You're gonna have to slurp this one up, bro.
Speaker 2:I look down at the fucking snail shell. She's catching it right, bro.
Speaker 1:She goes see you right, bro, she go, she out dog. No, this is funny. That's your fake engagement photo shoot. I mean that's kind of dumb.
Speaker 2:Like why would you?
Speaker 1:do that on the first date? See, okay, it would be cute if you guys ended up getting married.
Speaker 2:Yeah, you know what?
Speaker 1:I'm saying oh yeah, Because then you have like the first day y'all met, and then like when y'all got engaged like side by side pictures well, it's like the way you plan it, like she like knows, she'll know that the proposal's coming because then like you're like, hey, let's go back to the first date. You know what I'm saying?
Speaker 2:like that'd be bro, that'd be tough that's valid only if you get married dog, dog.
Speaker 1:So like bro, you better lock in, you better fucking lock in. Let's see here Speed run, a hobby Neither of you know. Nah, I'm going to be so for real. So there's this one girl. I was texting for a little bit. This was like my junior year of high school my junior summer I think and there was this game on Game Pigeon that we played. She was in Arizona, maybe I can't remember. Maybe, Idaho, and so we're playing this game. Neither of us know.
Speaker 2:Wait, do you remember?
Speaker 1:what game it was.
Speaker 1:I was like I want to say Goku. It wasn't Goku, what was it called, bro? No, but I just remember we were playing this game. No one knew what was going on, dog, and it was like low-key, making me mad. Yeah, um, oh wait, I think it's called. It's like oh, it's gamaku, gamaku, g-o-m-o-q. Bro, it's probably some like japanese game, bro, and they're like not even like like hold up. You see this, like, okay, you can see. It's like on the. It's probably some Japanese game, bro, and they're not even like Hold up. You see this, okay, you can see. It's like it's underneath the checkers oh, gamoku, or something.
Speaker 1:Nah, I was low-key pressed. I know this because I'm a competitive person. She is too. Yeah, I was low-key pressed because she was like man, I don't know what I'm doing. And then all of a sudden, she stops texting, right, yeah. And then she texts me back and all of a sudden her points are skyrocketing, dog, and I'm like what's going on? She ends up winning and I'm like, oh, you figured out how to do it. She goes yeah, I looked it up.
Speaker 2:I was like you didn't tell me.
Speaker 1:But I, but I was playing fair. I didn't look it up, dog, but because you know how, like game, pigeon got the rules that like, um, they have the rules of the games that you can look and look it up. Yeah, I was. It doesn't even have it on game pigeon. I'm like bro, they don't even know how to play this game dog they probably made that shit.
Speaker 2:There's like we need one more game to fill our workload.
Speaker 1:Uh, let's just add some random thing. Let's just make people mad. I like goku gabakoo.
Speaker 2:Nah, that's not bro, I hate that, okay not bro, this last one.
Speaker 1:I'm already saying this is not valid though escape rooms bro hello, I would get pissed Bro oh my God, dude, our first argument was on the first date, dog.
Speaker 2:Yeah, dude, escape rooms get me heated, oh my God.
Speaker 1:Especially, bro, there are some girls like nope, this is no hate to girls, bro, I love women. But like y'all, half of y'all in like, like, like crunch time situations, dog, yeah, heat of the moment, it's just no survival skill. I'm like hey, we got five seconds, go and push the button. What button? Now? We got two. Like, bro, you wasted three seconds asking me what I told you to do. Bro, now, I'm not gonna lie with you. There'll be times like when that happens, like I don don't even give a good explanation because I'm already so pressed. So she'd be like you didn't explain it. Well, I'm like well, if you would have understood half the things, I wouldn't have been pressed. Yeah, exactly no, if I was with my boys, we would have 30 minutes left. We ran out of time, bro, I did this last week with my boys and we got it done. Nah, bro, there's something, bro, like the idea like blondes, you know like they call them like blondes stupid. You know, bro, that shit true.
Speaker 2:That shit true, my friend. No hate to you, shelby, you're my dog, but you're the dumbest, literally.
Speaker 1:oh my god nah, bro, the last girl I dated, bro, she was a very smart girl, but she like, she like, it was like it's all, it's like. Not a lot of them, I would say, actually are smart, but it's like the street smarts. And I'll tell you, she was and this is I mean she was so smart, her street smarts were not there yeah and she even it was funny because she even joked about it yeah, all the time she's like welcome to blonde moments.
Speaker 1:You know, like she would say something like. I remember one time I was like what did I ask her? I don't know, it was something about like time or something like that. I remember one time I was like what did I ask her? I don't know, it was something about like time or something like that, I don't know, it was something simple. Yeah, and she was like what are you talking about? I'm like what do you mean what I'm talking about? I just told you what I'm talking about, you know? Yeah, you know, and so it's funny.
Speaker 1:Or she surfs sometimes you know and like you know I would ask her something about surfing or something and she'd be like what I?
Speaker 2:mean, I don't know, you're probably the surfer, you're the one that surfs man, you should know.
Speaker 1:No, but again, she's so smart. But no, but it's funny. I definitely think I don't know, like because isn't blonde isn't natural? Like it isn't natural, like it's not a natural thing, isn't like a recessive training? Yeah, well, like I'm meaning, like I know you can be like naturally. Like I'm saying like, um, like, just because you have two people with blonde hair, doesn't?
Speaker 2:mean because I thought two people with blonde hair.
Speaker 1:You can typically get like a burnette like yeah, you know, saying like blonde is like a, I guess, blonde hair, blue eyes yeah, I can't remember.
Speaker 2:I I know redhead is like not natural, but not bro. I have a. I have a question actually about that all right what is your type? What?
Speaker 1:would you?
Speaker 2:say your exact type see, I'm black bro.
Speaker 1:So like I know a lot of people are like making of what my type is, and they're right, she's usually blonde. Alright, there you go. Blue eyes, blue eyes.
Speaker 2:Pure.
Speaker 1:Nah, I'm playing. Nah, that was crazy, I ain't gonna lie no. See, it depends, bro the blue eyes, bro Blue eyes got me, bro Blue eyes, it depends, bro, okay the blue eyes, bro Blue eyes got me bro, yeah, fair. Blue eyes got me, man, I think brunettes with hazel eyes and blondes with blue eyes. I'm not a big black hair fan.
Speaker 2:Really I don't know why. That's honestly fair.
Speaker 1:I don't know, it just doesn't. Yeah, I feel like a girl that's attractive with black hair, like she's like attractive dog, she bad. But like I feel like yeah, and then redheads.
Speaker 2:Yeah, you know, they're either a ten or a one Every time.
Speaker 1:Bro, I've met some tens dog.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I know Dude, yeah, I.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I don't want to say I have a necessarily of a type. I feel like there are certain things that, like I would say like my type. I feel, like most girls, I go for. It's either like it just depends on the color of your hair and also your height yeah, that's a good one If she's the same height as me. It's a lot harder, like I'm not very tall, I'm like 5'8".
Speaker 1:But if she's 5'8", he's like 5'10". I feel like, yeah, if you're the same height, I'm not gonna say no, yeah, but like, because I was always thinking like man, if you're in heels I look like a loser dog, like bro I know this is crazy to say, but like on my wedding dog, if I'm shorter, bro, what am I going to tell my kids?
Speaker 2:Yeah, I feel like you, kind of aura lost right there.
Speaker 1:I lost all my aura dog Especially bro. This kid this people.
Speaker 2:But there's so many short girls out there like, oh yeah, for sure, you don't even need to go for a girl that's your same height, bro, this kick.
Speaker 1:But there's so many short girls out there.
Speaker 2:Oh yeah, for sure you don't even need to go for a girl. That's your same height, bro.
Speaker 1:I've only talked to one girl that was taller than me Really, and she was taller than me. Yeah, she was taller than me, but yeah, no, I don't like the feeling of being the same height and I say like, but I hate the too short bro of being the same height. And I say like, but I hate the too short bro, Too short.
Speaker 2:There's such a.
Speaker 1:Thing as too short dog, Because, like there's just one Dude.
Speaker 2:Imagine me, bro I was 6'3" dating a 5'2 girl bro, oh my, gosh bro.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I can't like, yeah, but it was lucky fire.
Speaker 2:Really yeah, honestly, like I Again.
Speaker 1:I'm 5'8" so it's like you know, I'm never going to date a girl that's 4'8". I think the sweet spot for most men is like 5'5" 5'5". I think that's a sweet spot. Now, if you're 6'7", you ain't finding a girl. Dog, I'm sorry, dude.
Speaker 2:The thing is bro, I low-key, have been like liking taller girls now for some reason yeah, really. From taller girls now for some reason, yeah, really. Like I think I've, I've, I started as short girls and now I just think, like imagine I had a girl that was like 5'10" bro, that would be D1 kids.
Speaker 1:I mean you could trade them.
Speaker 2:Yeah, I mean they'd be taller shit though. So like I feel like I need to kind of look out for just go for it, bro, for real brother.
Speaker 1:Next generation is falling apart dog yeah we got people like my height just walking around, dog bro. There was a point in time where our military was like, well, I guess they are like our military, like intimidating, but like, by the time, like we're parents, dog, everyone in our military is gonna be my height, bro, those people are gonna be laughing at us.
Speaker 1:He can't even pick up the gun. Like you know, like, the reason, like we were so into, well, the reason we're so intimidating like them, asian countries, dog, is because we're like like half a foot, you know, half a foot taller than all of them. They're like the white man. You know what I'm saying. But like now, bro, like that sucks bro, I ain't gonna lie bro, nah bro, but women, bro, there are a lot to handle. Man, I you try to like, you try, this dating's gotten so out of hand like in our culture like we got like the independent women movement which bro all four.
Speaker 1:If you are independent dog yep bro all four no, this is what I'm going to say right here. Dog, I'm happy that you can do things on your own, okay, but if I want to do something for you, can you please be content with it? Like, if I open the door for you, it's not because I don't think you're capable, it's because I'm a man and I just want to be kind dog. Like, there's no in between, bro. There's one girl that you don't open the door Because you talk to this one girl who's you know I'm an independent woman you open the door for her. She gets mad at you, okay.
Speaker 1:So you guys, you know, you guys break up because something happens, you know. Then you talk to the next girl and you don't open the door for her. What Chivalry's gone. I'm like, bro, y'all gotta make up your mind, bro. Like, hey, I'm glad that you could live on your own, I'm glad that I don't have to be at your house whenever you hear a noise downstairs, but but also if I want, to be kind bro, let me, you'll be the first nigga she'll call when she hears the noise downstairs.
Speaker 1:Hey at least I'm the first one dog. That would be crazy dog. It's also the names that she'd be bringing out, bro. I already called Deshawn.
Speaker 2:I already called Jarnavia. I already called Daquan. He said he's busy.
Speaker 1:Why couldn't you have called Caleb dog? Yeah, what about?
Speaker 2:John man Call fucking John. Adam bro, what yeah? What about John man Call fucking John? Atta bro why it gotta be like that 6'6" Fucking dreadhead football players bro.
Speaker 1:You know I can't, bro. If I ever walk into my girl's house dog, it's like and Deshawn's standing there, yeah bro, she calls. I just thought, why'd you call Deshawn, bro, like?
Speaker 2:come on, bro. I mean, first of all, he's eating Swiss cheese in the spot. If I walk in my house and I see Jarquavius standing in my fucking doorstep 6'8" fucking basketball player, and my wife is nowhere to be found. Oh, she's in the fucking bedroom all tired, wonder why that is that nigga's getting swishies on the spot. On the spot. I was just here to do the plumbing. Yeah right, nigga, you were plumbing something else.
Speaker 1:Bro, I'm pulling out the clock. Dog, bro, everyone's dying dog, everyone's dying, everyone's dying. I am not playing. Everyone's dying, bro, I'm going to prison it's a rash, bro.
Speaker 2:Everyone's dying, including me at that point.
Speaker 1:I hope I don't got kids one day he just snapped tell me what happened here don? I don't even know. I just came home, they're all gone. Child protective services guy was there. That was it. Nah bro, nah bro, that's yeah, that's right bro. And I see like some videos when people be like explaining some things, like so he did this and they're like, and then like in the comments bro, some people not a valid crash out come on I want that to happen to you.
Speaker 1:Tell me that's a valid crash out. I'm sure you think. I'm sure you think that was a bad crush out.
Speaker 2:How do you feel about a girl having a guy best friend? Hell, no.
Speaker 1:It depends. Now hear me out, I'm going to give you a little wisdom right here. Alright, See, it depends on how gay we talking. How gay we talking. Listen bro. Can you ever?
Speaker 2:trust that they're gay, Because if they have a guy best friend he's gay. But somehow he knows who won the fucking light heavyweight championship in 2022. He's not a gay bro who won the Super Bowl in 2016.
Speaker 1:He was right out the dome.
Speaker 2:This guy's getting a bullet in his fucking nose no, hang on, hold up listen.
Speaker 1:If Buddy's like borderline trans dog, okay.
Speaker 2:If he's like a fat boy.
Speaker 1:go ahead, bro, go ahead dude, there's this one kid from my school, bro. I was at the pool, bro, and he pulls up. He had hair down to his armpits. Bro, this is going to be crazy to say, bro, I might gotta black this up. Probably the most beautiful hair I've ever seen in my life. Like, like. It was like blonde, like it was like bleached or something. It was blonde like from, like, like I I don't know dog, my guy was crazy dogs like I have I've never seen. I think he's in hair care.
Speaker 2:I was just getting on the switch in science.
Speaker 1:No, but I think he was in hair care or something like that. That was the most beautiful hair I've ever seen. But then, bro, it turns around. I'm like I know that kid he's got nipple piercings. Dog, oh, bro, he got a piercing in his nose. Dog, he got long nails like probably about like what those things were. Like two inches long dog. Like that kind of guy that's my if that's my girl's best friend. See, now I'm borderline dog.
Speaker 2:Because now I'm like okay, so he is so gay, like like I'm gonna feel uncomfortable being in the same room with him yeah you know what I'm saying, but like I don't know where he kind of pissed off when I see it and I'm just like what the fuck you doing?
Speaker 1:talking to my girl, no, but they always be getting these, like they must be having these names. I feel bad for, because I got a boy named Gage bro and he's not gay but like you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1:They always be on like James and Gage, and like I'm like, yeah, yeah, that was the truth we got to have. Like I'm not even going to say that. I'm not even going to say that, Nah, I'm not even going to say that. I'm not even going to say that Nah, bro, but yeah, I don't know man With yeah, bro, if my girl's got a gay best friend, it also depends on how long they've been friends, dog, that's true. And if she's always talking about them.
Speaker 2:Ooh, that would piss me off, that would, can we?
Speaker 1:stop talking about gage dog.
Speaker 2:Like, come on, dude me off, can we stop talking about gauge doc, if my girl had a guy best friend that she like didn't talk about. They were just like best friends and like like go get like starbucks or something in the morning I saw each other once a week.
Speaker 1:Yeah, like that's like basically a girl bro yeah but if it's like they're hanging out all the time and like they go and fucking, he gets her food or some shit like bro, nah bro, if I ever hear that she got him I mean he got her food bro I'm hanging out with him bro and I'm gonna figure this out. I haven't figured something out.
Speaker 2:No, send in someone to act like they're gay and then see if he's really gay you know who wayne gretzky is?
Speaker 1:Yeah, you ain't gay. Yeah, you ain't gay. How many points LeBron got? 40. No, you ain't gay, you ain't gay, dog People would be like. But there are gays that know about sports. I'm like no, no, no, no, no, no, not that much, not that much, yeah Now. Or if he's dating a guy and I've seen the guy that he's dating, then maybe Okay, yeah, true.
Speaker 2:If he's dating a guy and it's like imagine you're dating a guy and that guy is chill and he's like a muscular, he's like a manly, like gay dude, then I would feel comfortable with it because I'm like I know this nigga's getting fucked every night. He can't be fucking my girl.
Speaker 1:Nah, have you seen? Oh, what is it? What was it? Oh yeah, oh yeah. Gay guys be saying the most crazy things I've ever heard in my life, you know, like when they're actually gay dog, I'd be like why the hell would you say that dog like?
Speaker 2:when they're actually gay dog like.
Speaker 1:I'd be like, why the hell would you say that dog? Yeah, they're just freaky, bro.
Speaker 2:Bro, there's one reason, Dude, it's a guy because guys automatically have way more horniness than dudes. That's a fact right. And it's a guy that likes dudes that also have the same amount of horniness, so obviously it makes sense that they're all fucking just ready to go 24-7.
Speaker 1:They're like explaining things in depth that, like no one ever wanted to hear. You know Mm-hmm.
Speaker 2:Like why would you?
Speaker 1:say that Like yeah.
Speaker 2:What's an example?
Speaker 1:Huh, I ain't bringing up any of that, god, I ain't bringing up a guy, nah, but like I was. There was a gay guy in my class in high school and he was like obviously he's sitting there on like TikTok and he goes. He's like hello, why are you so cute? I'm like, oh, what the fuck? I'd be like, is he like bro? I understand that the guy on TikTok is cute, but you don't got to say it, dog. Now see, like if I'm with my boys and I see a girl on TikTok, that's like bad. You know, like I'll probably say something, bro, but if I'm just sitting in class, dog and I see some girl, that's bad.
Speaker 2:I'm like damn she's bad as hell Bro yeah, I'm not talking about everyone else in the class, like it doesn't seem like me or you. We're sitting in the back of the class, damn In the back of the fucking class.
Speaker 1:You got something to share with the class? Yeah, Nah, bro, you ain't ever catching me. See, I'm not very like. I don't know about you. I'm not very vocal about my girl.
Speaker 2:You know what?
Speaker 1:I'm saying About my girl's physical appearance. I don't think we you mean to her. No, it's other people. You know what I'm saying. People would be like my girl got all fat.
Speaker 2:Oh yeah, definitely not. I never would talk about stuff about my girl. That's like personal with my friends so I feel like that's like kind of weird like I wouldn't want my friends giving me feedback on like my girl, you know she does, bro.
Speaker 1:She does maybe like like that's just like kind of weird well, and it goes to like even when people are like yeah, I remember people always put me in a corner because I don't really feel like your girl's bad, huh, I'm like, I mean yeah, oh God, actually that's so fast.
Speaker 2:That's such a weird question to answer. Yo, imagine you're talking about it. You're like yo, bro, I'm going to talk to this chick, is she bad? I mean, obviously I think she's bad if I'm fucking talking to her Like bro, and then if I show you a picture, it'd be weird if they're just like oh, she's bad bro.
Speaker 1:Oh yeah, they're like dad. You up, bro, like hey, I'm like. No, I didn't ask for this bro, it depends. If she's like bad as fuck, though'm gonna be like but no exactly, bro, if she's like an eight dog, like she's bad. But like you're gonna, let me, I'm like you were never saying I never heard. Nah, man, nah, I don't know man I can't be doing it sometimes, bro, but yeah, it is what it is. You know what I'm saying. I can't be doing it sometimes bro but yeah.
Speaker 1:It is what it is. You know what I'm saying Hell yeah, hell yeah. Nah, bro, it's been good having you on, bro, hey well appreciate you for having me, bro, yeah for sure, man Thanks man. We're going to have to have you on.
Speaker 2:Hell yeah, dude, I'll definitely run it back.
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